Are You Giving And Recieving In Apprropriate Balanced Way?

By Roop Lakhani - 10:26:00


Today I was sitting in the balcony of my house, there was lots of sun rays coming in, and there is lots of greenery around, cars moving on the highway. After a while, say an hour, the same sunny rays became cool, it was little breezy and feeling cool. I started thinking of how kind the nature is. After an hour, it started raining heavily.

I was thinking of all the things that is given freely by sun, moon, earth, wind, water, space without I asking for them, and all is unconditionally given. I experienced lots of gratitude realising Nature supports your every need and desire, including your need for joy, love, laughter, harmony, and knowledge. 

This also reminds me of my childhood conditioning by my parents, not to ask for favours and always give, give more tha what you can.also I was taught as a child, never to go to anyone’s house empty hands. You may go with full heart of love, friendship, laughter, joy, care, positivity about your feelings for the person you’re visiting. You may go with a flower, gift, a compliment, or even send a silent prayer or blessings(dua).Give wherever you go, and never expect back in return. Today being a healer and a coach, I do realise the importance of giving and recieving in appropriate way. Also I realised the value of excess giving creating frustrations. But then I also realised the balance of it. As you give, you will receive. As you receive, the more your ability to give will increase, and the more you’ll gain confidence in the miraculous effects of this law.

 This may not be in the form of material expensive things, but it can be the gifts of caring, affection, appreciation, complement and love, that cost you nothing.

But the question arises, why a human being cannot be like this? Why he has complains of not been given enough or not having enough?

The answer was, God has blessed us with two brain hemispheres, two nostrils, two eyes, two ears, two hands and two legs, there is a lot to talk about the giving and recieving when I say about these two parts. 

Then a reflecting thought entered the mind, 'seek these things first — not only for yourself, but for others — and all else will spontaneously come to you.'

We are been blessed by infinite abundant nature's resources. Still many a times, we feel there is not enough for us. Reminder is, to follow one of the laws, that is giving and receiving to make you abundant and your inherent nature of being infinite and unlimited, operate from the being of infinitely blessed and a giver, and see how Universe will open the doors of possibilities that will give you more than enough.


A question to you, *Are you giving and receiving in appropriate balanced way?*
Whatever the answer, the knowledge is ultimate source of wisdom.

Every relationship is of give and take, and any imbalance in it creates disharmony. Many people believe more in giving, very few people know how to recieve. 

 Even the breaths of our life, inhalation and exhalation works in balance, creating rhythm of our inner flow of life, by giving carbon dioxide and recieving oxygen.

Money also follows the principle of giving and receiving, the circulation and balanced flow happens when there is appropriate giving and recieving of money. If we stop the circulation of life energy, if our intention is to hold on to our money and hoard it, we stop its circulation back into our lives.

Most important aspect of giving and receiving is, 'The intention.' When the act of giving is joyful, willing and unconditional from the heart, then the energy behind the giving increases many times over. But if we give grudgeful or complaining or half hearted or unwilling or forcibly, there is no energy behind that giving. If we feel complain or heavy while giving or gifting, then the gift is not truly given. The same applies for recieving.

Let us follow simple rule of giving and receiving today
If you want love, learn to give love; if you want attention and appreciation, learn to give attention and appreciation; if you want material affluence, help others to become materially affluent. If you want to be blessed with all the good things in life, learn to silently bless everyone with all the good things in life. The more you give, the more you will receive.

R O W it

Check, 'What are you READY to give or recieve today so that it will create abundance for you?? '

Check, 'What are you OPEN to give or recieve today so that it will create abundance for you?? '

Check, 'What are you WILLING to give or recieve today so that it will create abundance for you?? '

Check, the R O W question and make your life filled with abundance
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Roop Lakhani


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