Soul mate connection
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I often have clients for Tarot questions why his soul mate he can't get married, or why the spouse who was like soul mate got divorced or seprated...
Well the answers would be different for each one but i know a soul mate’s behavior isn’t always sugar and sweetness—they are often mirrors and catalysts. Here’s how they typically behave, depending on the kind of connection and the phase of the soul journey:
1. They feel familiar, as if you’ve known them forever.
They understand your silence.
Conversations flow effortlessly—even deep topics.
There’s emotional and energetic comfort.
2. They reflect your strengths and your wounds.
They trigger unresolved patterns for healing.
You may experience friction or emotional highs and lows—because they stir your soul’s growth.
They hold space for your transformation.
3. They support your growth, not your comfort zone.
They encourage you to be authentic.
They challenge limiting beliefs and push you to evolve.
Their presence feels safe, yet they won’t let you play small.
4. They stay connected even in separation.
You feel their energy.
There’s a telepathic bond or synchronicities that keep you aligned.
Sometimes they return after soul lessons are learned.
5. They behave with depth, not always perfection.
They may come with flaws, but there’s mutual respect and acceptance.
They trigger, but don’t abuse.
The relationship is not always smooth—but it is meaningful.
For me to answer through cards is little easier as the cards speak a lot to me. But generally just because someone is your soul mate doesn’t mean they’re meant to stay forever. Soul mates come into our lives to awaken parts of us—love, purpose, wounds, strength. The relationship serves a soul-level purpose, not always a lifetime promise.”
Why Soul Mates Sometimes Divorce:
1. The Contract Was for Growth, Not Lifetime
Their bond was real. The love was true. But the purpose might have been to teach, heal, evolve—and that purpose was fulfilled.
2. Once the Soul Lesson Is Learned, the Energy Shifts
The relationship often becomes uncomfortable when the soul no longer resonates at the same level. Growth can take people in different directions.
3. Soul Mates Can Mirror Wounds Too
They may reflect unresolved issues—abandonment, insecurity, self-worth. Once those are brought to light, it’s up to each individual to heal. Sometimes, that healing journey is solo.
4. Not Every Soul Mate Is a Life Partner
Some are Seasonal Soulmates—here for a phase. Others are Catalyst Soulmates—to trigger awakening. A few are Companion Soulmates—who stay, but only if the growth is mutual.
When someone wonders why they didn’t end up marrying their soul mate, i explain:
Soul mates don't get married.
Not all soul mates are meant for marriage. Some are meant for awakening.
Here are beautifully truthful reasons why soul mates often don’t end up together in the traditional sense:
1. The Connection Was Spiritual, Not Practical
The bond is deep, the love intense—but their life paths, timing, or values may not align in the physical world. Soul connection doesn’t always mean compatibility in daily life.
2. They Came to Teach, Not to Stay
That soul mate may have opened their heart, broken their patterns, helped them love again—or even helped them find their true calling. But their purpose wasn’t lifelong companionship.
3. Unresolved Karma or Timing Issues
Sometimes there’s karma to clear, but not enough readiness to sustain a mature, grounded relationship. The connection may be from a past life, but this lifetime may not be aligned for marriage.
4. One or Both Were Not Ready
One soul might evolve faster, while the other stays stuck in fear, ego, or old patterns. Soul connections can be intense and scary—causing one to run or pull away.
5. Their Presence Was to Prepare You for Someone Else
Some soul mates come to show you what love can feel like—so you never settle for less again. They serve as a gateway to your highest self or future life partner.
I lovingly remind my clients:
Marriage is a contract of society. A soul connection is a contract of the universe. Don’t mourn the loss—honor the purpose.
There is difference between soul mates and twin flames.
Soul Mates vs. Twin Flames
1. Origin of the Connection
Soul Mates:
Two separate souls who share a deep bond. You’ve likely shared many past lives together. They come into your life to teach, support, heal, or help you grow.
Twin Flames:
One soul split into two bodies—your mirror soul. They reflect your light and your shadows, pushing you toward spiritual awakening.
2. Purpose
Soul Mates:
Companionship, support, mutual growth, healing, love. The connection is nurturing, sometimes challenging, but more stable.
Twin Flames:
Activation and transformation. They trigger intense emotions and spiritual evolution. The connection can feel chaotic, magnetic, and sometimes painful.
3. Energy Dynamic
Soul Mates:
Comfortable, safe, balanced. Even if there’s work to be done, there’s emotional maturity.
Twin Flames:
Intense, fiery, and often on-and-off. There’s a runner–chaser dynamic. One may not be ready for the connection, creating separation.
4. Relationship Outcome
Soul Mates:
They can become life partners, friends, or even mentors. They often stay—if both choose to grow together.
Twin Flames:
Often don’t end up together unless both do deep inner work. The relationship is meant to awaken the soul, not necessarily lead to marriage or a conventional bond.
5. Signs of the Connection
Soul Mates:
Ease in communication, mutual respect, lessons of love and forgiveness.
Twin Flames:
Synchronicities, emotional turmoil, instant recognition, intense attraction, and spiritual breakthroughs.
Final Wisdom:
Your twin flame burns your ego. Your soul mate heals your heart.
Both are sacred. Both are necessary. But their journeys and outcomes are very different.
Soul family
The idea is that before incarnating on Earth, our souls choose certain experiences, lessons, and even relationships—including our family members—through soul contracts.
These contracts are said to be spiritual agreements made with other souls to help us grow, heal karmic patterns, and evolve spiritually. Our parents, siblings, and even challenging family members may play roles that trigger, teach, or guide us in profound ways.
Some key beliefs tied to soul contracts:
They are chosen based on the lessons your soul needs.
They're not about punishment, but growth and evolution.
Difficult relationships may serve as mirrors or catalysts for transformation.
They can be renegotiated as we evolve and become more conscious.
Beautiful. Let’s dive into how soul contracts and karmic patterns intertwine, especially within the family context.
1. Karmic Patterns in Families:
Karma isn't just individual—it often flows through family lineages. You may notice repeating themes like:
Abandonment or rejection
Controlling or overprotective behavior
Emotional unavailability
Financial struggles
Addictions or abuse These can be signs of inherited karmic patterns carried forward by agreements at the soul level.
2. Soul Contracts as Karmic Agreements:
Before incarnating, your soul may agree to:
Be born into a family where a certain wound (e.g., rejection, betrayal) is active.
Play a role (like the peacemaker, black sheep, or caregiver) to help resolve old energies.
Trigger or be triggered by specific individuals to bring awareness and healing.
3. Repeating Patterns = Unresolved Karma:
If you notice similar painful patterns across generations or relationships, it's likely your soul is calling for awareness, healing, and completion of that karma.
For example:
A woman born to a narcissistic mother may later attract a narcissistic partner. The soul is seeking to learn boundaries and self-worth.
A child who feels unseen might have been the one who ignored others in a past life, and now experiences the other side.
4. Healing Karmic Patterns:
Awareness: Recognize and name the pattern.
Inner Work: Use tools like shadow work, inner child healing, or regression therapy.
Forgiveness: Deep soul-level forgiveness (not condoning, but releasing).
Breaking the Cycle: Choose differently. Set boundaries, speak your truth, love yourself first.
5. A Gift in Disguise:
Karmic family contracts often bring the greatest pain but also the deepest transformation. Once you understand the lesson and consciously choose to break the cycle, you free not only yourself but your entire lineage—past and future.
To your awareness to touch your soul
Roop Lakhani
www. Rooplakhani.com
www.rooplakhani.co.in
