February is the month of love, to celebrate special time with valentine, and celebrate love. 14 February is valentine day.
Love – What is love? We all talk about love a lot, but what actually is the definition of love? What does love really feel like? It is the emotion to feel and experience, it is unexplainable. Yet it carries that non tangible good feelings when you experience it. It is a different feel and different experience to each one. It carries that super charged positive unique feelings. It feels like excitement and bundle of joy. It gives peace and security. No doubt, like all other emotions, nothing exists without its strong opposite, just like a day has night too, good has bad too, similarly, the love as its own opposite polarity emotions and that is anger, sadness, revenge, grief, pain and hatred. People who are in love has experienced these opposite emotions too while in love.
Knowing, human being is a social animal and he carries different relations during his journey of life, so let us see what different types of love a person can experience
Different types of love
1. Brotherly love – it is romance less love is love without romantic attraction and it occurs between friends or family members. It occurs when both people share the same values and respect each other
2. Enduring love – It is unique bonded love that matures over many years. It’s an everlasting love between a couple that chooses to put equal effort into their relationship. Commitment and dedication are there to stand with each other.
3. Acceptance love – this type of love is seen generally in parents and children or best friends, where it’s an infinite love built upon acceptance and deep emotional connection.
4. Lust love -this type of love is a primal love that comes as a natural instinct for a couple who falls in love. It’s a passionate love displayed through physical affection. These romantic behaviors include, but are not limited to, kissing, hugging and holding hands. This love is a desire for another person’s physical body.
5. Flirting love – it is a child-like and flirtatious love commonly found in the beginning stages of a relationship. This type of love consists of teasing, playful motives and laughter between two people. People try their luck to attract love. It is more of seeking others attention towards you.
6. Obsessive love – It leads to unwanted jealousy or possessiveness or co-dependency, found in couples with an imbalance of love towards each other. It can be some disorder of childhood emotional issues.
7. Self-love – this is healthy form of love where you recognize your self-worth and don’t ignore your personal needs. Self-love begins with acknowledging your responsibility for your well-being. It’s healthier when self-love is balanced, person can have healthy relations with any other person.
8. Motherly love – it is the highest level of love to offer. It’s given without any expectations of receiving anything in return. It is more seen in ideal mother’s love towards a child.
9. Conditional love – this type of love is based on conditions, where a person ‘uses’ the other person for recieving selfish needs of one’s own desires.
10. Manipulative love – this type of love is seen in people who can think, do or behave to show love for removing their selfish needs from the other one.
11. Abusive love – this type of love is more of abusing other people to show their pseudo powers, ego and domination. A person could have had a very powerful abusive mother to this person during his childhood.
12. Platonic love – This type of love is an affectionate relationship between two human beings in which sexual intercourse intetest is neither desired nor practiced. It is not vulgar. It has respect for boudaries, trust and has no expectations. It requires honesty from both ends and it is self less
13. Comanionship love – it is the state of being friends, but it goes a deeper than even a friendship. It is a closeness or familiarity, a true fellowship among two people who for whatever reasons have truly connected. It goes with cozy feelings and great company of one another with some common goal.
14. Friendship love – what mainly separates love and friendship is the sexual aspect between the two people. In friendship love, there is no sexual desire. When you’re in love, you want to make plans with each other, move forward together, do everything together, have sex or intimacy.
15. Teacher Student crush love – it is normal to have crushe on teachers. It is normal to have crushe on anyone in high school as you are a teenager and your hormones are high, but when someone stands in front of a classroom, and is confident in their teaching, intelligent and passionate about their subject, it is very understandable that they would be admired. And that admiration can be crush or love
16. Puppy love- Puppy love, also known as a crush, is an informal term for feelings of romantic or platonic love, often felt during childhood and early adolescence, generally 4 to 14 year olds. It is named for its resemblance to the adoring, worshipful affection that may be felt by a puppy.
17. And may be few more types of love could be there.
Relationships are of different types and that’s why different types of love exists with different types of people
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