Every person who comes in our life is somewhere a part of the Universe plan. The universe has arranged and designed everything so well that human beings designs are nothing in front of it
What you are reading now is also not an accident, but is a coincidence. We are all connected, and while reading this article, you are connected to me.
Each time when I share articles, I am a catalyst to shift someone's mindset and from so many readers it can be that one person who would get uplifted. I call this as divine guidance. I have made sets of cards which are known as Divine Guidance. You take one card and you will connect with the message what it has to give. I love these ”*coincidences*” and "*synchronicity*". At times I wonder what mysteries of life can we unfold if we could understand the design of the universe!!
We are a tiny spec of microcosm of this universe, mega macrocosm. We all are interconnected in various ways. Everything that happens to us affects someone else too. The mind is complex and the design of the universe is also complex. Yet inspite of so much chaos and complexity, there is so much of order and structure, everything seems to be in its right place in the right time and in the right order.
While I am practising Redikall consciousness, my awareness has increased to my life story and people around me. I realised we are a small part of this big macrocosm, where we meet people, go through some situations, feel happy or sad, feel bad or good, everything happens for a reason. Everything what we experience, including joys and thrills, the dramas and traumas all have a great purpose and brilliance.
Our existence here on the material plane may have various experiences of life. We have many lives and that, between those lives, we are in a spiritual realm. Our soul is here to learn, evolve and grow. The souls nature is to feel light, peaceful and happy.
While we are in that spiritual realm we get to make choices about our next life. Our souls choose what experiences we wish to have and what purpose we desire to achieve. We choose those things that help us to grow spiritually. And we take human birth and we forget the souls goals. The human costume takes its own course of actions to follow his desires, goals and aspirations. In that process, he makes connections with people that enable us to do so.
Cosmic connections are those people who come into our lives to help us develop and grow. These people are vital to our spiritual progression. They make come into our lives for a moment or a lifetime. Either way, they can change the course of our lives forever.
Often we learn, grow and evolve from the difficult people in our lives than we do from the ones who are a pleasure to be around. Those we are cosmically connected to come into our lives to help us look at things in a new way, heal our pain and change direction.
Life is no smooth-sailing all the time. We all have our ups and downs, go through series of experiences and events that could be struggle or challenging, some of us have smooth roads and some have difficult roads. Each significant and non significant people has so much meaning to contribute to us, and that is why they come in our life.
We come across people who serve different purposes to us, they teach us lessons or they walk out of our lives without leaving any trace. Some are destined to stay forever, such as family. Some leave us after some time, such as friends and colleagues. Some come for a reason to cross our path, some come for a reason to make us grow, some come for a specific purpose, some come for karmic exchange, some come to wake us up, some will transform us and go away.
I have found a few, how about you?
1. They remind us of our life purpose
Sometimes, when we meet someone, there is an instant connection. It feels like we have known them for a lifetime or we also wants to be purposeful like how they are. And something about them reminds us of who we really are. It’s like mirror. You see them and you know a switch is flipped. We suddenly remember our connection with the divine and our soul purpose. We know what is the purpose of our existence. We start to focus on the purpose once we meet them and we avoid getting ed or defocus from our life path.
2. They inspire us
3. They shake things up
These people often disrupt our lives. These people force us to look at the way we are, the way we are living life. They somehow convey that this is not the life to live. They may awaken us to our victimised,abused state or to injustice what we are tolerating. They remind us of our true values, encourage us to follow our dreams or simply remind us to appreciate the wonder of being alive with a meaningful purpose.
4. They heal us
These people often provide deep healing to our souls. They believe in us and help us to overcome the pain of our past. They help us offload our emotional baggage.These people remind us that all that we have been through is part of our spiritual journey. They can help us to move forward instead of remaining stuck in pain. They help heal out deeper parts.
5. They cause us pain
These people don’t necessarily make life easier for us. When they come into our lives they challenge our egos and force us to look deeply into ourselves. This is often painful. We would sometimes rather stay in our comfort zones and live mediocre lives. We don’t always have the courage to face the truth and become who we are meant to be. These people deliberately conspire against us to cause the challenges and pain.
6. They come to awake us
These people are there in your environment, harmless and distant to you and yet an example to you that you need to be awakened in your life.
They directly or indirectly cause the latent potentials to be showing up, by just reminding with their presence that, get up, get going, start moving, make right choices, change and create your life.
7. They are neutral to us
These people are not harmful nor harmless. They are there in neutral way. Their presence or absence will not affect you. They are like passing by strangers or people who just pass by you.
8. They are support to us
These people have nothing to take from you but they are there to support you. They may support you emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually, morally or any knowledge advise type. They would not want anything in return or have any anticipated expectation from you
9. They are beneficiary to us
These people will surely benefit you. They may come to help you when you want the most. They may be there when you wanted some ones time or efforts. They may be there when you wanted some money. They may be there when you asked for emotional support.
10. They are toxic to us
These people are toxic by nature. Their influence on you may cause you health problems, financial challenge, relationship disharmony, personal power issues, mental problems, or more.
11. They help you grow
These people help you grow personally or professionally. They may come to give you a referral that can change your life. They may show you the path that changes your life direction. They may accompany you for some time, take you towards your goal and then may leave you.
12. They nudge you
These people are nudging you towards your goals. They just stop by in your lives, to remind you of your goals so that we remain focused on our path in life.These people remind us of who we are and what we truly want.
13.They come to love us
These people come in our life to show what is true love. They come in form of lovers, spouse, parents, friends or any other relationship title. They will endlessly love you. They will be the complete enbodent if love to you.
14. They are your extensions
These people are like your extensions. We all have fragmented and scattered personality. These people are your extensions as they are split off part of ourselves that we are unaware of but are known to others. These are usually negative traits that are too painful to acknowledge and that we deny having. These extensions, however, cause problems in relationships but on the other hand we need them because they cover our wounds; so we hold onto them and deny them and blame others. These people will give us love and approval that we need to survive.
15. They are your emotional partners
They are loving and caring. They believe in you. They will encourage you to follow your dreams and aspirations. They will empathise you with your emotions. They will do a meaningful discussions for your desired goals and give you insights.
16. They are emotional drainers
These people drain us emotionally and are people who suck all the positive energy out of you. Wheneveryou’re with them your mood radically changes, you feel tired, exhausted, frustrated, angry, tons more pessimistic, less tolerant, less compassionate and less patient. You just want to avoid them, ignore them or reject them.
17. They are your shadow
These people are like your shadow, means what you percieve yourself as weak or dark and you keep them hidden or denied. They come to you to complete your shadow side, and show you the bright side of you. It is not easy to face the shadow side. These ofcourse may take lots of pain to uncover and discover your true self. if we fully accept our sadness, then only we feel joy more fully, and are more likely to find a middle ground of contentment that can then be balancing you of the emotional spectrum. Knowing our shadow side we can find out our bright side. What we can accept and understand about ourselves we are then more able to accept and understand in others.
18. They are having parallel pathways
These people share similar pathways and may be in different time and space. They share similar difficulties or similar pain and they talk about those as if there is someone to hear you out. They talk and you realise you have also gone through similar pains and difficulties.
19. They are like mirror
These people are, you met for the first time and felt instantly drawn to them or like you’ve known this person before.
As your mirror, they reflect back to you your weaknesses but also your greatest strengths. Essentially, their presence usually brings on a lot of personal growth and transformation. These people are your mirror to show you your hidden self. They show you their self so openly where you are seeing your hidden sides in them. There are many things that we do hide or believe that we keep to ourselves as we learned they were not acceptable to our environment and we made conscious decision to keep those suppressed so that we can be acceptable to others.
20 They are fun people
They come in your life to show, don't take life too seriously. Enjoy life. Spend time with yourself and life as if celebration. There will not be this moment coming agin. You may have regret later that you could not enjoy your adulthood or your marriage life.
21. They are carefree people
These people are carefree, they dont bother about what other people will think of them. They have removed all defensive mask and all that stuff that takes away from their real self . After meeting them you start thinking what defensive mask you need to give up
22. They are open and transperent people
There is no looking good to them. They are symbol of trust with their open and transperent nature. You learn to be open in their presence. Your courage to speak the truth opens in their presence.
23. They are manipulative people
These people have hidden selfish agenda and with that they are always on the game plan to use you or abuse you with their manipulations. They are smart in their communication skills and they can remove any type of information from you that can be used against you. You can either lend up getting used or feel threatened they are going to misuse you.
24. They are selfish people
They are bothered only about their needs and their priorities. They hardly empathise you for your emotional needs. They are not bothered about your needs or priorities. They can be ruthless, least compassionate andleast considerate. They care about everything for them and can do even emotional blackmail to you. They can use you for their persoanl advantage.
25. They are sweet talkers but bad mouthing at back
These people can be super good on your face and super bad at your back. They love gossiping and back biting. They can bad mouth for you for no reason because of their inferiority or jealousy.
26. They are super moody
These people can be moody and temperamental. They can snap at you, they can get cranky, they can cry easily and laugh easily. They are not stable in their emotional world. They can influence you and also impact on you due to their varied emotional moods.
27. They are saddistic people
They enjoy hurting people with their aggressive behaviour and saddistic temperament. They enjoy making others feel victimised. They can really bully people for their superior feelings. They would have some psychilogical childhood issues.
28. They are aggressive and controlling people
These people are hostile and domineering people. On the surface, they may come across as domineering, demanding, or even abusive. However, they surely are not empathising and very ruthless. They are bothered about the end result and not bothered about others feeling due to their hostile behaviour.
29. They are 'poor me' people
Placing blame on others, not taking personal responsibility, feeling helpless all the time,frustrated, resentful, angry, depressed, not seeking solutions, feeling powerless, negative self talk, self sabotage, lack of confidence all are signs of victimised people who has to take others attention with 'poor me' talks. These people are dependent people and seek others attention and help but not help themselves.
30. They are depressive people
They are sad, lonely, depressive, worried, anxious, hopeless, feelings of guilty, feelings of worthlessness, feelings of helpless all the time. These people requires constant encouragement and constant positivity.
It is more about knowing people around you to be more aware of where they are and where you are in your life.
Recognizing your connections can change your lives. When we look at each individual who crosses our path as a divine messenger, our attitude towards them changes.
Every person we meet has the potential to help us grow, and understanding the brilliant significance of these people in our lives helps us to deal with them better and make the most of what they have to offer.
With much love and appreciation for deeper connection
Roop Lakhani
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